September is Self Improvement Month

This month we are departing from the regular how-to and tips column and focusing you on you. September is self improvement month, and with school returning and new-year’s resolutions probably forgotten, it’s a perfect time to focus on you.
So much of our time is spent selflessly giving for others, that it’s easy to forget ourselves. At some point in our lives we will find our self wanting to be a better person and measuring against some imaginary scale we create. This desire often leads us to take steps down a path of unknown difficulty. The desire and imagined fear may even stop us from taking a step, and so we stagnate.
The change we seek doesn’t happen overnight and our small steps may seem to prolong our journey, yet we still step towards the unknown because we desire to be better than we were. Though we are moving forward, the journey can seem to be taking us away from our goal or ideal. The struggle is in trusting the path and believing we are getting better.
Look at the picture of the labyrinth, and trace the path starting at the gap on the bottom. Notice how you move close to the goal, then far away only to return again, eventually getting to the destination after a journey. Unlike a maze which has wrong turns and dead ends, a labyrinth has only one true path. A journey of self improvement is much like the labyrinth in that you will often feel like you are losing ground one day, and gaining the next. The key to not losing motivation is to trust.
Trust is a powerful word, and my challenge for this month is to use it daily. Not just say it but believe it when you do. A good place to start using it is to replace the word hope with the word trust. Hope is not a bad word; it just doesn’t have the strength of belief behind it. For example “I hope you’ll have a good day” or “I trust you’ll have a good day”. In the second quote, the speaker is not on-the-fence with “hope”, but has committed to trusting you’ll have a good day. They are on your team.
Self improvement is often just that… trust. Trust in yourself, trust in your beliefs, trust in your dreams, trust in life having purpose even if you are unsure of it.
Take time for yourself, invest time in improving and caring for you and believe in yourself. The time spent in this way not only helps you, but those around you. As you grow, you can better help those on their own path in the labyrinth.
Stay well, stay strong… you deserve it.
©Darren Renaud Natural Health Practitioner
Take time to try these tips, and I’m sure you’ll see results.







