
There are times or events in life that are game changers, those things that permanently alter our future. We can perceive these as positive or negative, the difference between them is simply how we choose to react or deal with them. It is after all always a choice.
I recently had one of those events. One of the most positive people I know had her life taken quickly by cancer at 47. Even though this tragic event left many asking why, she remained positively well even into her last moments. How did she live and remain so positively well even when faced with her own mortality? She was a determined and positive woman. Here are some positive tips I’ve learned from her life.
Deal with the elephant: Whatever the issue is no matter how difficult or seemingly unpleasant, deal with it concisely and as soon as possible. The stress form ignoring or trying to bury a problem almost always weighs more than the elephant in the end.
Believe in people: People and who we help are the only true measure of our success. The people you help and their gratitude will encourage you and help you to stay positive.
Take the next step: Have faith in purpose and take the next step. What you can achieve will only be limited if you don’t take that next step. Even if the next step seems misplaced, you will learn and have wisdom for your next step.
Take good care of yourself: When you feel good, you are also positive and vice versa. Love yourself each day.
Smile: Wear a smile every day, it’s infectious, and it’s harder to be negative when you are smiling.
Believe: Live with integrity, and believe in yourself, the people around you, and a higher purpose. Trust your heart.
So you see even though the event seemed tragic and untimely, I choose to be positive. I choose to take to heart how she lived her life, and to do my best to lean her lessons on living positively well. These are powerful lessons from a powerful woman.
In loving and positive memory of Sylvie Hyndman (Houle) 1963-2011
Stay well, stay strong… you deserve it.
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©Darren Renaud Natural Health Practitioner
Take time to try these tips, and I’m sure you’ll see results.